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    Oops, I Did It Again!

    I told myself I was done with this online dating crap, but that little ding and notification bubble pops up and I’m like a crack whore unable to put the pipe down.  Okay, bad analogy, I admit, but you get…

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    Fighting the Funk

    Back from a week in paradise!  You would think that I would have found my zen or feel re-energized, but instead I have been in a funk since I’ve been back.  The trip was great, don’t get me wrong. We…

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    Raising the White Flag

    I’m raising the white flag in surrender. I give up! Online dating is dead to me.  Just when I thought it couldn’t get any worse…it did.  After countless conversations, chats, texts, phone calls with over 20 men, I finally decided…

  • LOVE LESSONS

    A Letter To My Future Love

    Dear Love of My Life, I finally found you and I couldn’t be happier.  You have brought a love into my life that I never thought possible. You are everything I want and need.  You are strong, yet kind and…

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    To Be or Not To Be

    I’m running out of inspiration. Why, you ask? Because I’m not feeling that instant connection like you read about in Shakespeare or like you watch in all the stupid “Rom Coms” that have given women a false sense of reality…

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    Taking Back My Heart

    Throughout this experience of dating all these different people, I have realized something that has been holding me back for all these years. You see, what I realized is that I gave my heart to the man I married and…

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    Letting Go

    Today marks the day of what would have been my 24th wedding anniversary. We’ve been divorced four years now, and I haven’t really even taken notice of that date in those four years, but this year feels different.  Perhaps it’s…

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    Attention Dating Disorder

    After the last date disaster, I thought it best to pump the breaks a little and re-evaluate the “power dating” approach.  I decided to be a little more selective with whom I speak to and especially who I go out…